To Win Back Your Man Dont Panic
It's horrible! Your guy has just walked out the door and says he isn't coming back. You're in shock, but you know you don't want this to happen. If anyone were to ask you would tell them that you're prepared to do whatever it takes to win back your man. I can help, but you're not going to like what you hear. If you really want to get your man back, you need to let him go for now.
Panic is Your Enemy
If you want to get your man back, you need to be smart about it. You need to get yourself under control, and get past the panic you're feeling right now. When we're so emotionally wound up, in so much pain, we tend to panic. And when we're in a panicky state, our judgment stinks and we do things we later regret.
Right now, if you were to actually interact with your man again, there's a good chance that you would end up doing one or more of the following things:
- Saying something that isn't true
- Saying or doing something to make him feel bad about leaving you
- Saying or doing something to make him jealous
- Getting into an argument
- Rehashing old arguments or disagreements
- Trying to get revenge on him
- Making him feel like he's being stalked
People do stuff like that all the time in the aftermath of a breakup. Sometimes they even do stuff like that on purpose, because in the hear of their panic and anger, it seems to make sense at the time.
But think about it calmly. Which one of these actions would be likely to help you win back your man? None of these things is going to fix your relationship. At best, they'll just show him how much of a wreck you are without him (how attractive would that be?). At worst, they'll reaffirm his decision to leave you.
This is why you need to cool off and back away for a while. To the extent that it's possible without being rude, completely avoid your ex. Don't call him, visit him, text him, contact him in any way. I know it will be hard on you, particularly if you learn that he's begun dating. Still, you need to do it.
But How Do You Win Back Your Man With This Plan?
Even if you agree with me that staying away from him for a while will keep you from making things worse, how will it help you get your man back? It will help because while you are avoiding him, you are going to be doing things that will make him want to come back to you when you do see him again.
Exactly what you'll be doing during this time is detailed in T.W. Jackson's relationship repair guide, The Magic of Making Up. T.W. tells you exactly what you need to know and do to make this into a time where you get over your panic, figure out what went wrong, and do what needs to be done to win back your man.
You can do this. You HAVE to do this if you want the best possible chance to get your man back.
T.W. has prepared a video called How To Get Your Ex Back Opening Move, where he explains this in more detail.
Watch this video and see how the plan will help you win back your man. 
